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Camino del Norte – Day 15 Comillas to Serdio

Moving forward is the only way to go Pa’lante es pa’llà.

Date: 9th June, 2024

Section: Comillas to Serdio

Region: Cantabria

Distance: 18.65 km

Average temp: 25 degrees

Time on the trail: 5.45 hours

Ascent: 420m

Decent: 334m

Staying: Serdio

Hosteria El Corralucu – Rural guest house right on the camino way. 55 for a double room with breakfast. Clean, comfortable, big rooms, a bit of noise from the room upstairs, but not crazy. A small blink and you’ll miss it town with a good cafe for dinner just a few minutes walk away called ‘La Gloria’.

Recommend, yes ✅.

Instagram: Link to extra photos and daily caption.

Today:

Yes! I am back on the camino, almost a year later and back in Comillas where I left off last time. Gosh, my toes were so injured last time that I really wasn’t sure if I would make it back. No gel polish this time (insert hand over face emoji here). It was a first for me to have to STOP, to really just stop. I wasn’t even sure if I would want to come back, but after writing up the last stage of my camino I felt the familiar call. I am not finished here, it’s still unfinished business for me. There is still some 400 odd kms to go, so here I am ready to walk another 120 of them.

I arrived last night after walking to the station from my home, training to the airport, flying into Bilbao, Alsa bus to Santander and then onto Comillas via a local bus. At the bus stop in Santander I noticed a lady that I had also seen on the plane. We started chatting – as you do when you look like you’re here for the same thing. The hiking pants, backpack and poles are a giveaway. Her name was Jenny and she was Dutch and was also making her way to Comillas where she too had left off last time. So random. She also has four kids and takes off from time to time to walk long walks. Funny don’t you think, a classic camino style coincidence and right from the get go! This is going to be interesting I thought to myself – for sure I am MEANT to be here.

We talked about where we were staying and she was planning the ‘wing’ it type camino. That is, she will just land somewhere and find a place to stay. I was doing it a bit different this time. I had pre booked the first three nights and have planned continue doing this and to have my own room rather than share with people I don’t know. In this phase of my life I just need my sleep! I also need a little more privacy to deal with being a woman in midlife who now needs HRT, glasses and space when I have walked all day. I was also very tentative about my toes – could they still do this day in day out walking. I had whole rituals prepared for this and 7 days of walking to find out.

Of course it is a little more expensive this way but I planned to be organised with food supplies and I am here for a week not a month so it is manageable. This camino I am very curious about what I like (really like) now and of what I think (really think) now. I want to practice making decisions and having a point of view that is less bendy to that of others. I want to remain flexible and spontaneous of course and open to new ideas and perspectives. But I want to be able to choose the energy I give and the energy I take with more care. Like Laurence from France who I wrote about in my last post, she was so good at that. All the strong women I met on the last stage of this camino were, it was the theme.

Naturally, the camino being the camino it didn’t give me much time before I had my first experience to test myself. Jenny was having trouble locking down a dorm room in Comillas. I could offer to share my pre booked double, but deep down I just wanted to start on my own way. There were other rooms available and she was not going to be stuck. There was also the option of staying in Santander and bussing into Comillas early the next day. Always decisions when you walk a long walk, like life. Still though, even as I write this it doesn’t sound very ‘of the camino spirit’ however, it felt like I need to to choose myself in this moment. Look, she may well not have wanted to share with a stranger but still this showed me how hard it is to choose myself sometimes and to not overthink it! I might still be overthinking it. Uuurgh.

After a delicious dinner, a good night sleep in Comillas and with a backpack loaded with fresh food and supplies for the day I was off. Off in the rain! Ha ha the rain in Spain. Of course sun in summer is not a given in the North of Spain, there is a reason it is known as ‘Green Spain’. You need rain for green. It wasn’t unpleasant, I was giddily happy to be walking again and the rain was only in the morning.

There were the firsts, the firsts of the normal things you expect on a Camino del Norte day. The first café con leche, the first ocean views and the first of the pilgrims or as I like to call them, the camino characters. And they happened all at once at my first stop at a beach cafe.

The coffee was so very welcome after 10kms of walking and just a bread roll and some fruit to start the day. The ocean views as always had me grinning from ear to ear and the pilgrims – well, they were very interesting indeed. An older couple who were Oxford University professors. You just never know who you will share a coffee with along a camino! Honestly, I don’t know where else I would randomly just have a coffee with a couple of professors, let alone from Oxford. It was a grand start.

As the walk went on, once again I was just enamoured by the overgrown every things, the animals in the paddocks, the constant of the ocean to my right and the rolling hills and farms to my left. Life is good. Dang I am glad to be back. I happily walked solo today and cherished every single moment. The milder weather made for a comfortable day of walking and as always it feels like the ultimate luxury to have this time and space to just walk. It just feels like me being me. (Note to self: maybe this is a clue for me in narrowing down my ikigai*.)

I arrived in at Sergio in the early afternoon and was so grateful my guest house was right on the camino way, this makes everything so easy! I was able to check in, shower and rest before heading out to dinner. There was only one cafe in the town, La Gloria. It was just a few minutes away, my feet are in excellent shape, toes are fine and I happily strolled down in my best evening wear – the socks and sandals. This will be no surprise to those who know me, this is my absolute favourite hiker-chic attire.

The menu of the day (menu del dia) with the local favourite bean stew was perfect for the end of this long hiking day meal. In the restaurant I got talking to Ted and Bobbie from the US and I heard a number of other accents around the cafe. Bobbie had walked this camino before and she was walking this time with husband. While I only met the two professors along the way today, this cafe stop in this tiny town showed me there are others around. I do wonder who will the camino put in my path along this walk and what lessons are in store for me this time around. No expectations, I will just walk.

Highlight:

All the firsts in that one spot on the beach. Coffee, connection and the Cantabrian sea.

Ho hum:

Imagine a place where things happen not because of an algorithm created to sell you something but because you’re out living your life!

*Ikigai: a Japanese concept that translates to “a reason for being” or “a reason to wake up in the morning.” It represents the intersection of purpose, meaning, and joy, bringing value and fulfillment to your life.

Not always sure where I am going but I am on the way …

Ahh the camino though – what a brilliant guide book it is to life. Every camino has always reminded me of what matters, of who I am, of what I need to be considering and it’s challenged me to reflect deeply. Each long day along the ancient paths an opportunity for the camino to work it’s magic by providing the moments, experiences, people and the possibilities needed for such introspection. Always, I am reminded to meet myself exactly where I am in life, and really – is there any other place we should be?

Hiking the Camino del Norte has been my post covid hiking project after walking the entire Camino Frances in 2018. I started in 2021 and it is now 2026. I am about to publish the 2024 daily stages of my walk as I prepare to leave for Spain later this month to finish this camino project. Excitedly with a tad of trepidation I am yet again off to walk a long walk! I have been walking a number of long walks these past years (Scotland, Italy, Japan) and hopefully they will find their way to this space in the future. But first it is time to finish this project. A hiking project 5 years in the making!

It does feel rather significant that for the past 6 years I have lived my life alongside a yearly or biennial walk along the Camino del Norte. The Norte has been a constant through these years of growing children, menopause, life on the other side of the world, the covid effects, losing myself, rebuilding myself and all of the easy and hard, joyful and not so joyful days that life gives us.

Having just reread my hiking posts of this long hike thus far, the Norte has shown itself to be quite the mentor to me in this time. Ironically, just last weekend I was saying to some friends that I missed having a mentor. Mentors have always been significant in my life and career. Yes, the camino has been my friend and mentor, it has shown me my weaknesses and strengths – all the the while putting exactly what I need in my path. This is probably one of my favourite new thoughts, seeing the camino as a mentor.

You may recall that I left you after my last post in Comillas. It was my first ever #CaminoOver and it was due to injury, a bit of a silly preventable one. But it taught me I am human, that I am not invincible and that I DO need to know myself better. I took those lessons with me and came back to the Camino in 2024 stronger and ready to practice knowing myself better. I’d love it if you’d indulge me and read along as I write up my 2024 walk (albeit 2 years later) as I prepare to leave for my final stretch of the Camino del Norte soon….

If you want a refresh of my walk reflections you can read my stage by stage posts from day one here!

Camino del Norte – Day 11 Güemes to Santander

If friendship is a treasure, thank you for being part of my fortune – si la amistad es un tesoro, gracias por ser parte de mi fortuna.

Date: 17th July, 2022

Section: Güemes to Santander

Region: Cantabria

Distance: 23 km

Average temp: 33 degrees

Time walking: 4 hours

Ascent: 241m

Decent: 314m

Staying: Santander

Hotel Hoyuela – Hotel on the beach 125 per night

Recommend, yes ✔️. Super clean and very comfortable bed, restaurants close by. A bit of a walk when you arrive in town but worth it for me to wake up near the beach. It’s my last night – a treat. Very much a hotel in a tourist location though – not camino vibes.

Instagram: Link to extra photos and daily caption.

Today:

I am so tired! There is a flip side to the joys of the shared accommodation that I was spouting off about in yesterday’s post and last night I experienced these too. That other pilgrim who was allocated to our cabin, the middle aged guy who spent most of the evening out socialising, well, he finally returned to the cabin. We went to bed before him and at some hour he came back and was up and down sorting himself out. When he was up he was switching the lights on and off in the bathroom without the door closed, rustling in his bag and when he was down he was snoring – like a truck. I get it, shared accommodation comes with all the people, but sometimes you’re unlucky. You get the normal things like snoring and early risers but also you can get the people with a complete lack of self awareness and consideration for others. He was all that.

I was also kept awake by some little bites, not excessive which tells me the cabin was not infested with the dreaded bugs, but they were there. A problem I am sure they are used to dealing with given that tonight there were 70 people staying, everyone passes through this albergue. And I thought the camino was quiet! To be fair the bugs are not only to be found in the public style albergues. I have been bitten in a small private albergues and even once in a hotel. Perhaps just another example of comfortably uncomfortable. I always hope for the best but I am always prepared due to my sensitivity to bites. So I took my anti histamine, applied the itchy cream, had some breakfast and set out for the day with the said 70 pilgrims.

Lots of people meant lots of photos with my favourite muse. The hiker. AND yes, that is a bunch of celery hanging out the side of Eva’s pack. Aside from the lack of sleep I am richer today than I was yesterday. Richer with the experience of having walked a day with my friend Kate from Madrid, Sunshine and her daughter from Ireland and Eva from Slovakia. Each of them with their own stories to tell and a whole day to be curious about each other. It is a sweet thing, the camino family. I don’t for a minute think of them as my actual family but on this day they were. There was interest, caring and a kind of closeness that comes from sharing yourself in deep conversation. It was a special day – another way in which the camino becomes a part of you along with the people you meet. I have been inspire by my little camino family of today.

Walking on this day with Sunshine and her daughter I wondered about doing a camino with one of my kids. These two were walking for the summer, they didn’t have to finish but maybe they would, they were just walking to see how it goes.

Spoiler edit … I did go on to walk a camino with one of mine! In the October break of this same year (2022,) Lucas (12) and I would begin the Camino Frances. We walked St Jean Pied de Port to Puente la Reina. We plan to go back for more. And Sunshine and her little one … well they walked the entire Camino del Norte in this summer of 2022!

A beautiful day of cliff walking and more of my favourite, the barefoot sand walking. The coastal towns along today’s walk were more of the beach holiday rather than quaint Spanish village vibe. I also like this vibe. My husband together with our 4 kids spent one European summer camper-vanning along this coast looking for surf waves. This vibe also brings cool beachside cafes with different food on their menus. We sat down to a really tasty tofu poke bowl, a dish I’ve never seen along a camino. I’ve said it before but I’ll say it again, walking across a country is truly one of the most wonderful ways to travel.

Cheers y’all!

After a comparatively shorter walk today (23 kms) and another boat crossing, we arrived in the capital city of this region and my final stop of this trip along the camino, Santander. A major port city that was founded by Romans and one I’d like to explore but will save that for when I return next year to walk another section. But back to the moment! Today I finished and celebrated another stage of the camino with a cold, hard earned beer, my first for the trip. I then followed up with a siesta after last night’s shitful sleep (I’m Spanish now), a refreshing swim in sparkling sea waters, some Calamari and some Cantabrian tomatoes (do put these on your list).

No longer a pilgrim! A tourist with one night to relax before heading home to my incredible family who are often more excited for me than I am for myself each time I set out on a camino adventure. I am so fortunate to have such cheerleaders in my life. Now it’s my turn to go home and cheerlead for them.

Highlight:

All of this experience. The astoundingly beautiful landscape that is the Camino del Norte, the people I met along the way, family for a day, the big hugs goodbye and the knowing that this is what it is. An experience, a moment, a time to treasure.

Ho hum:

I am a part of the camino and more so this camino experience is a part of me.

Everything has a time and place …

Yet again the camino calls. ‘Come’ she whispers. ‘It’s warm and sunny, your toes can sink into the sand as you walk alongside the ocean that awaits where you last left off. There will time for you to ponder, people for you to meet, delicacies for you to enjoy and all manner of surprises for you to uncover.’

Yes. Yes, I will go. I will answer the call. The pull this time is strong. The camino is magic like that. I am curious for what I will find along this next section of the camino. Once again I feel ready to hop on where I last left off to simply walk. To walk a long walk. Although if I am honest this pull, coupled an excitement that is growing is somewhat surprising to me given that last time I wan’t sure I’d ever be back on the camino again.

It was July last year when I last set off on along the camino del norte. A camino that lasted three days instead of the ten I had planned. I was done with the camino when I left. So done. I didn’t want to be sharing rooms, I was frustrated at being injured (through stupidity) and I didn’t love the realisation that was revealing itself to me, that in this time of my life I’d given away my power. I’d completely lost myself. I had no idea how to use my voice anymore.

But in those three days of walking and the three days of stopping I met some incredible women. Women who each gave me something to ponder throughout this past year. Women who I’m sure without realising gave me what I needed. I needed a place to begin and some questions to ask myself. When I left I knew I needed to go home. It was the first time I’d ever stopped for a day along a camino and surprisingly I was completely ok with it. This time the camino was not about distance, days walked or reaching a destination it was about stopping and the women who walked into my life. Women I would never see again but who would always be a part of me.

Of course you haven’t yet met these characters, these women and what they inspired me to go and learn about myself because I came home and let these stories and this blog sit on the sidelines. It didn’t quite fit. The stories I thought I was going to write didn’t come home with me. I came home different. I needed to take what each of these women had provoked in me and to go and be with that in my life. To take those questions and go on a long walk, to live with them. Life is a camino! I’ve been walking almost a year with some of these thoughts.

Everything has a time and place. When I started writing this blog it was with good intention, to create something for and with women. But there was also perhaps an egotistical intention and the desire to create what others expected I should do – to build a camino something. As the call came this week to walk again, so did the call to write here. As I started writing, the title changed from ‘your camino’ to ‘camino tales’. I can’t tell you how to walk your camino, that’s not really me. I can however share my camino tales with you and connect with you through my camino stories. That is me. Ph-ew, this feels peaceful, now this blog is synchronous with how and what I want to write. Flow.

These women, these characters you’re yet to meet them in my writing and what they inspired in me during my last camino. Oh and the preventable injury, that’s a doozy! It’s going to be embarrassing to write up that one. I’m excited to answer the call to walk the camino again and with that excitement I feel hopeful for this space. I think I get how to use my voice now. Just be me. It sounds simple enough but I feel this will be my challenge. One I am looking forward to actually. One I will be thinking about as I reread ‘Big Magic’ while I walk in a few weeks. There are still things I want to change and learn from about how I’ve blogged in the past. I hope these changes will see this blog grow into something beautiful.

Ho hum … the first challenge in the next 10 days or so is to enter a writing cocoon to catch up on all my camino del norte posts. If I can do this I can blog live from the camino. I find live blogs from the camino such a joy to read. I would love to extend myself to do that, to get in amongst that joy. I don’t love typing on an iPhone when travelling so much but the connection with fellow adventure lovers – that’s fun! And fun is good, fun is definitely worth investing time in. So, if you’ll have me I look forward to sharing this space with you over the next few weeks to share some camino tales.

Fran x

“Say yes to every single tiny clue of curiosity that you notice around you. That’s big magic too. It’s big magic on a quieter scale and on a slower scale, you just have to learn how to trust it. It’s all about the yes.”

– Elizabeth Gilbert